What would be a Man…with and without a woman? Man wants a woman always by their side but in stressful situation, they want to be completely away from them.
In India, when a baby boy is born, Family already imagines that this boy will take care of the family at the old age. Expectation of the family starts as soon as he is out of the mother’s womb. As soon as the boy starts to walk and run, the parents make him realize that you are strong, you shouldn’t fall and cry. The boy grows up with the same mentality - “Strong and Don’t Cry”. As the days pass by, the boy comes out of school and college, the real fight starts for him.
Reservation for girls, reservation quota for ST and SC, high cut offs just make a boy life’s difficult. As they can’t cry, they get used to lot of addictions like cigarette, drinks, and many more. These probably help them to control their emotions. Then major decision of life –Marriage comes into picture. Men whole heartily welcomes the woman and the woman’s complication in their life. Just give a thought- If a man desire to stay at home to take care of the kids and woman goes for earning for the family. It will be completely undesirable, troublesome and unacceptable in the society but the reverse is completely normal. Even men are humans. They also want to enjoy life by staying at home but it’s not possible. A lot of marriage issues pop up in man’s life. Sometimes it is related to woman’s desire or managing his own family disputes related to woman and her family. After pressurized day at office, it’s very difficult to think and resolve the family disputes. Sometimes it become so unbearable that one doesn’t feel like coming home.
In any case if a woman is creating nuisance in man’s life, there is no law in the Indian constitution, to protect the man. If a woman suicides, the police will first put the husband in the jail. It might be that husband is innocent but this case is never considered. The guy has to pay hefty amounts to come out in the bail and life is screwed forever.
You might have noticed that in smoking or drinking places, usually men takes out their anger, their problems, their painful life or anything that is bothering them. It’s a way of feeling better and be out of their stressful life.
Hey Men! Buckle your shoes; you can only save yourselves from distress. Stand up for your own rights.
